Is Your Relationship Worth Saving?

Three things come to mind when I think about December. Rest (Hello, Snooze Button! 🙂 ) Family and Christmas! For most people, myself included, it’s also the perfect time to evaluate important things like careers/businesses, relationships, passions amongst other things. “What went right, and what went wrong?’ “What could have been done better?” “What can I…

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I Almost Died

First, it was Tunji the beggar, and now this. The on-the-bus adventures continue, featuring a special guest… my friend Lizzy 🙂 The whole thing happened earlier this month. We were on our way home after what was a ladies day out with the TWTW clan when an interesting fight broke out. An actual fistfight, with blows…

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Revelations (An Easter Sunday Musing)

Once upon a time, on a small island in the middle of the sea, I wrote the words FIRST CLASS in bright, bold letters and stuck the sign by my bed for months on end. It was my second year at uni, and my grades weren’t doing as well as I would have liked. No matter how hard I…

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Making Love Work

Have you ever had a conversation with a beggar before? I did a while back, a good thirty minute one for that matter, and definitely left that experience more enlightened than I was before it began. His name was Tunji, a man in his fifties or sixties, with a tiny, frail body swallowed up by…

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Finding My God

 Childhood The god of my childhood was a huge, blue-eyed man with long gray hair who sat on a shiny golden throne high up in the heavens. He was usually my “go-to guy” when I needed something badly, like a new toy or a day off from homework… childish things, more or less. I usually…

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